it's a no-win situation for some who refuse to see it..
best advise is that you ask her: if your husband goes off somewhere
with a woman friend, parties hard.. without you.. how would you
feel?
this is heading for a heartbreak.. and i can safely say that she'd
say it's her husband's fault...
i've seen way too many people like that.. i call it the
supermassive black hole complex... because of the scientist's
hypothesis that the galaxy revolves around a supermassive black
hole..
some people think that everything in the universe revolves around
them...